Singer behavior: Curing Tardiness to rehearsal
Dear Colleagues:
Thank you so much for all of the great responses I received concerning this issue. Many of you had similar ideas, so I have listed these ideas in lieu of posting a long compilation.
It turns out that this is a large problem with many Church/Volunteer Choirs and it is one which does not have an easy solution. Below I have listed some of the suggestions that I received as an answer to this problem:
1. Overwhelmingly was, START ON TIME!
2. Speak privately with those who are habitually late.
3. When someone enters late, have everyone stare at them in silence or make some comment to them. My favorite response: (thanks to Mr. Timothy Brown) Maybe when someone walks in rehearsal 20 minutes late, you can say "I see Howard wants us to be here until midnight!"
4. Some suggested that they have a penalty box that they use. For example, Anyone who is late has to put 25 cents in a box or jar as a penalty and that money is then given to a charity or something similar.
5. Others suggested that a door be locked or that there be some type of punishment involved. (but many of you responded that you have to make rehearsal something the members enjoy, not something that they have to be made or punished to do--remember, make music fun!)
6. Speak to the choir or devote some space in the choir newletter/church newsletter to the fact that being late is not fair to the other members of the choir.
Other suggestions:
Make a sweep 10 minutes before the rehearsal
Do a sweep through the hallways 10 minutes before the rehearsal. Ask members or leaders of bible study groups to let the choir members leave early. Change the day or times of rehearsal to a more secluded time.
Thanks again for all who responded.
The one thing that we must remember as Church choir and Volunteer Choir directors is that these people are there out of their love for God and we as the directors and leaders should always be good stewards of their time--as they should be good stewards of the time that other choir members have given to the choir.
Thanks,
Russ Donaho Associate Pastor of Worship and Children Iron City Baptist Church 41 Mandy Lane Anniston, Alabama 36207 (256) 238-1293 email: russ(a)ironcity.org
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1 He always started on time.
2 When a person came in late he would apologize for already having started the class and start over again.
3 When the next late arrival entered the room he would do the same thing again, i.e. apologize and start over.
This means that the persons who were there at the beginning had to listen to the introduction about 7-8 times!
The peer pressure is enough to make people be there on time the next lecture!
I haven't tried this myself yet but I think it would have the same effect in a choir.